help... please?

[SHooTKiLLWiN]

my girl doesnt wanna do it anymore. like ever. and if we do do it i have to go through hella shit to turn her on. she never just wants to flat out do it. my first thought was that shes getting it from somewhere else. but i have no real way of finding out. ive checked her myspace and phone and there are no signs of another guy ... or girl around. so yeah. what do i do? i want to bring it up to her. but i dont want it to take the turn of 'is that all you think about?!' ( i will admit. we do argue a lot more since we have stopped doing it as much, and we do sit around a lot more and try to think of things to do since we stopped doing it ). but yeah. help? please?

[Nox (ADVANCED)]

Maybe you just suck at pleasing your woman. You want to just flat out do it where she wants some "romance" in it. A womans sort of like a diesel engine, ya gotta warm her up and then she will go and go an go.


In other words take some time and care with ya girl to get her crazy for it.

**note to headcase:
I do NOT consider myself the authority on relationships as you seem to think.

[SHooTKiLLWiN]

ive been with her for 2 years man. already been through the phase where we did it like 4 times a day (not bragging :wiggle:) so its like a broken engine.. i warmed her up. got her going. and now she stalling.. and about to shut off completely.

maybe. like with an engine. i should shut her off completely. and just restart her. give her another crank.

ha. i crack myself up. funny stuff man.

[REL0AD]

ive been with her for 2 years man
Two years!?! Five posts from you and I'm sick to shite of you. (Kidding). Maybe you turn her off? Your bank job ideas have indeed shrunk my penis (could be the coke though).

Seriously though mate, jokes aside & coming from personal experience, she's maybe found out she's up the duff.

Plus, if she was cheating she wouldn't broadcast it on Myspace.

maybe. like with an engine. i should shut her off completely.
Mac10 do the trick?

ha. i crack myself up. funny stuff man.
Funny?
*opens dictionary*
...Erm, no mate.

[SHooTKiLLWiN]

Two years!?! Five posts from you and I'm sick to shite of you. (Kidding). Maybe you turn her off? Your bank job ideas have indeed shrunk my penis (could be the coke though).

Seriously though mate, jokes aside & coming from personal experience, she's maybe found out she's up the duff.

Plus, if she was cheating she wouldn't broadcast it on Myspace.


Mac10?


Funny?
*opens dictionary*
...Erm, no mate.

funny. 519 posts and im just now getting sick of you. (kidding) yeah i thought that though. maybe i just dont turn her on anymore. which would suck.

rob the bank. get the money. then i bet your penis would be hard. no homo.

wtf is 'up the duff??'

and not broadcast it on myspace. but i have her password and name and all that crap and can get in her account. so maybe an increasing number of messages from a guy or something. or other small stuff that could lead to her cheating.

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funny. 519 posts and im just now getting sick of you. (kidding)
You've read all my posts? Sad mate, sad...

wtf is 'up the duff??'
Pregnant.

rob the bank. get the money. then i bet your penis would be hard.
I bet Caspers would be when he gets your sweet lil ass in the showers...

no homo
Far from it son, I like women, ha ha shit... I even please the women I've had, unlike some (http://forum.rorta.net/showthread.php?t=1492).

[SHooTKiLLWiN]

not pregnant. shes on her period now. ( no thats not the reason were not doing it) and no. i didnt read all your posts. theres a tiny number under your name that says how many posts youve done. look. see it? goodjob :hitwithro

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theres a tiny number under your name
No shit? I've been here that long and I never noticed that... Yeah, it states: 525 not 519. Does the number 519 piss you off?

Take this to the flame lounge.

Back on topic. Give us more details about your relationship? What are the arguments about etc? Does she feel like a sex doll or do you show her love?

[SHooTKiLLWiN]

No shit? I've been here that long and I never noticed that... Yeah, it states: 525 not 519. Does the number 519 piss you off?

Take this to the flame lounge.

Back on topic. Give us more details about your relationship? What are the arguments about etc? Does she feel like a sex doll or do you show her love?

way to get it back on topic. actually. its a messed up relationship. that actually has made us stronger. shes cheated on me. ive cheated on her. (both seperate times months apart). both met the fams and everything that could go wrong has. and weve come through it. even the part of me coming out of high school and going to an out of state college ( i ended up staying in town ). i show her love. and treat her like a sex doll. depends on how im feeling. its a mix. sometimes i even tell her straight out shes a sex doll. and sometimes i just ask to cuddle with her. all depends on my mood.

maybe i should stop asking to cuddle. cause thats all she freaking wants to do now.

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maybe i should stop asking to cuddle.
That's a start, stop asking and just do it. The more love you show her the more she'll want to do it. Women are different to men when it comes to sex. Something in there brain is actually released when they have sex, which makes them closer to you. Can't remember what the chemical is called but yeah, it's true. Men don't have that.

shes cheated on me. ive cheated on her.
Well theres going to be trust issues on both sides, work on it.

sometimes i even tell her straight out shes a sex doll.
Don't.

i show her love. and treat her like a sex doll
Well she's probably pissed off that you treat her that way.

all depends on my mood.
Violence ever occur?

[SHooTKiLLWiN]

violence occurs in a playful aspect.

i think this thread is useless now though. i just met up with her. and we broke up. i asked her to pick between me and this other kid. and she hesitated. then finally said me. but the fact that she hesitated really pissed me off. she had to hesitate between picking me. a bf for 2 years. and a friendship shes had with this dude for a week. sooo yeah. i ended it. oh yeah and id like to add that this dude that shes friends with now. 2 weeks ago she hated him cause he was a perv that just always hit on her. soo yeah. good idea bad idea?


oh yeah. and we talked more later. and i brought up the hesitation. and she said the reason she did it was casue she couldnt believe i was asking her that. to pick between me and him.


i may seem like an arrogant fuck. but i get a lot attention from girls so its kinda made me that way. sorry.

[Nox (ADVANCED)]

WTF you hijacked my flame lol! J/K?

Yeah pretty much what u don't want to do thats all romance is exactly what she wants and dont ask if its like hugs, kisses, hold her hand etc.

Congrats for you rel0ad on getting ya marriage counselor degree J/K

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violence occurs in a playful aspect.
There is play fighting and there is violence... don't do the latter... I wouldn't want to nail someone who kicked the living snot out of me... well I wouldn't mind as it kinda turns me on but still, (jk ;) ), your girl probably doesn't appreciate it.

Congrats for you rel0ad on getting ya marriage counselor degree J/K
Thankyou Sir.

[SHooTKiLLWiN]

naw its like tickling and other stuff that really cant be called violence.

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Ah right, thought you meant fists etc...

[Nemesix]

look up my post on how to use/set up ardamax keylogger. you will be able to see every single thing she types and what pages shes been on, its a lot easier than snooping around on myspace. My personal opinion is that the relationship has gotten old. This is easily fixed though. Do something nice like surprise her, maybe be like... comon up to the room. but instead of having sex, maybe have a lil table set up with candles ect and say, nope u dont want sex tonight your sorry for bothering her about it all the time, and you just want her to feel special tonight. its failsafe and in the end, you will probably get some ;)

sorry for your breakup. next time try this tho

[headcase]

Violent tickles. Yeah, all those hardcore S&M bitches are into the tickles.

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Ha, I've got Dream Warriors on at the minute...

Can just imagine Shoot with the glove...

[crazy white guy]

just use foreplay until she wants to as much as you do

if that doesnt work

give her a really satisfying fuck.then she will want to a bit more often. as long as the sex is good