BDSM

[Th0r]

So I've been interested in BDSM to varying degrees for about two years or so now and I'm interested as to whether the bondage aspect appeals to anyone here or whether people like the whole master/slave aspect more?

[Raverous]

I think depending on the woman the outfits look good. I know they make them for men too but I sure wouldn't wear one. I wouldn't do the whole master/slave thing either. Id feel like a dumbass. That is if I didn't fly into an uncontrollable fit of laughter the first time she/I gave a "command"

...but "normal" sex, with the woman dressed in the outfit? Sure that's fine but beyond that, no. I'm not going to pretend to be a slave master and nobody is going to tie me to a bed.

[Th0r]

I'm not really into being dominated in the stereotypical sense of leather and chains. In fact even though I'm seriously interested in BDSM, girls in leather/latex/PVC don't turn me on in the slightest.

I think one of the things about BDSM is that for many it's a very unique fetish/sexual interest.

And to me, that's one of the most awesome things about it.

[REL0AD]

It repulses me...

[thief]

I cant see the harm in it...

[blackmetaljoseph]

So I've been interested in BDSM to varying degrees for about two years or so now and I'm interested as to whether the bondage aspect appeals to anyone here or whether people like the whole master/slave aspect more?

I like femdom porn. It's hot

[Th0r]

The few times I've been dominated by a female I've thoroughly enjoyed it. The porn unless its Hentai, I can't get off too.

[iceniner]

Images of hogtied bitches, stat.

[anarchojoseph]

The few times I've been dominated by a female I've thoroughly enjoyed it. The porn unless its Hentai, I can't get off too.

Only online lol. All of my offline relationships have been "vanilla."

[ScratchFive]

So I've been interested in BDSM to varying degrees for about two years or so now and I'm interested as to whether the bondage aspect appeals to anyone here or whether people like the whole master/slave aspect more?

The SM appeals more to me... :)

[aurum est potestas]

I have a girl who likes being pinned down and she for some reason really likes to be called a dirty slut and talked down to she gets off on the whole domination thing and her being horny makes the whole situation better so i enjoy it as well

[Th0r]

Start training her to be your slave dude.

[xx_hellraiser_xx]

Im 12 and wat is this?

[Paranoid Ecstasy]

Im 12 and wat is this?

The funny thing is I would actually believe this.


On topic: It's not a fetish of mine, but I've experimented.
I do have a set of leg cuffs and hands cuffs.
I've experimented with having the girl bound and then proceeding to choke her.

I had one girlfriend who wanted to cut me.
The girl and I both had been cutters at one point.
I told her, I didn't care if she cut me.
She proceeded with it and slit my wrist.
I ended up having to get 5 stitches.
TOTALLY killed the mood :)

I also designed my own bondage rope. (not saying it's unique just that I made/designed mine)
The girls position is lying down on her stomach, resembling the "U" shape.
So her legs will be facing upward and her back will be arched making her neck also upward.
The ropes slack must be tight.
One end of the rope keeps her legs/feet together, which is done with a slipknot.
The other end of the rope goes around her neck which is tied in a slipknot as well.
When done correctly, if she gets tired and starts to put her legs down the slipknot will tighten choking her.
If she tries to straighten her back by bringing her neck down the rope will tighten around her ankles and force her legs higher up.
The girls legs and neck facing upward should look like the "U" shape, and with the rope on it should look like a bow.
This could be used to satisfy a choking fetish, control/dominance, or used to force oral sex on a male.
I've only tried this once and I was extremely careful.
After setting up the rope, I tried it on my girl to see if it actually worked like I hoped.
It worked fine, except if she really wanted to get out she would push her neck forward making her legs go up.
She would keep her legs up and stiff then continue to push her neck forward which loosened the knot letting her neck out.


As I said, BDSM isn't a big fetish of mine.
I've noticed that I've used the set of cuffs, slapped, and degraded girls more then a couple times simply because girls have asked me to.
These girls are ones who don't perform in insanely kinky things.
Cuffs/slapping/degrading seem to be related to rough/kinky sex which seems to interest them because it's different.
None of them were into BDSM they all just wanted to try what appears to be the idea of rough/kinky sex.

[xx_hellraiser_xx]

Hahahaha, I'm not twelve, I'm fifteen. I don't know how I'd prove it to you without giving away my anonymity, but if that's how you think, so be it. Anyway, back to the topic. I am not a big fan of BDSM (even if I'm a virgin) I don't see how pain can be sexy.

[Saturday]

"Sexy" is something that Justin Timberlake is trying to sell you. Sex is really a kind of power struggle that you will learn about once you get a little older and have your heart stepped on and eventually start messing around with some females who have had their heart stepped on.

Oftentimes, role-playing with domination/submission involves a level of risk/reward that adds to the excitement as well. Usually, both people are giving out a large amount of trust to someone and relinquishing control (or taking it, depening on role). There are always exceptions to then rule though.
I am not so much into the leather and whips shit, as much as I am just into rough sex. If I gotta get dressed up for it, there's just too much foreplay involved.

[Th0r]

I'm trying to get the GF into BDSM but she detests the thoughts of collars and master/slave relationships. Lame.

Weirdly she does like being slapped around a bit and verbally degraded.

[iceniner]

she detests the thoughts of collars and master/slave relationships.

Who cares ?

I typically don't ever broach the subject or even say anything about it. I just do it.

Weirdly she does like being slapped around a bit and verbally degraded.

She probably doesn't want to blather on about it or for you to ask for permission.

Just put that collar on her. If she "detests the collar," all the better.

Personally I prefer women who detest the collar.

[Mlansky]

I am not into master/slave stuff, it's just that my brain ridicules sexual role plays, I like watching it but engagement isnt for me. However I lately got into some forms of BDSM, for some freaky reason most of the girls I sleep with are into pain, some of them are deep into that, being naturally none violent it wasn't easy at 1st but then it unleashed the ultimate dom in me :saevilw:

deep throat, face fucking, restrains this stuff is HOT

[Needtoknow]

I don't mind the master/slave stuff. It isn't corney when your doing it (if you're doing it right). Hell yah cuffs/ spreader bars/ mild pain is all very good stuff. :D

[crazy white guy]

I've tried it, didn't like. Was in a long relationship where the girl liked it. It made things kinda weird. For me, the best sex is the kind where its semi-spontaneous, like home alone and wasn't planned. Also relatively slow is better. It should at least start slow.

I don't mind the master/slave stuff. It isn't corney when your doing it (if you're doing it right). Hell yah cuffs/ spreader bars/ mild pain is all very good stuff. :D

it is painfully corny for me. The roleplay doesnt come naturally for me at all. I agree that the more mild stuff is good. I have a cheap pair of fuzzy handcuffs that broke, I've yet to replace them. Spanking has always been fun. =)

[Tarnak]

Pretty much all women like to be dominated and all men like to dominate, and that relationship is characterisic of pretty much all good sex. BDSM just takes it to the next level.

I have a buddy though who's always been in to women dominating him. Two weeks ago he paid for some chick to tie him up and spank him, make him eat her pussy etc. Now he's been fucking her for free on a nightly basis. He's married and doesn't know what to do lol... he's also afraid she's going to make him stick something up his ass.

[Saturday]

Tarnak, you are right on the money. All PC shit aside, on an animalistic level, guys like to dominate and women are the submissive ones. Our anatomy is just designed that way and you can see it everywhere in nature.

All that other shit seems to be the result of influences based on environment, etc.

[Anders Hoveland]

This must certainly be the most extreme BDSM bizarre sex toy:
(the following link may be innappropriate for young viewers, or simply disgusting and plain disturbing)

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Apparently the metal rod is intended to be jammed down a guy's pee hole, then electrically shocks the guy. Seems more like extreme cruel torture than pleasurable sex toy, but for those that get aroused by pain, this could certainly be their type of thing.